While sexy lingerie is always a great way to add some spice in your sex life, combining your sexiest garments with some naughty accessories makes things even better. These accessories offer a more subtle erotic addition to your bedroom activities, making them a great starting point for couples looking to explore beyond the standard vanilla sex.
Just a single sexy accessory can transform your sex life, adding a completely new dimension that brings all kinds of weird and wonderful pleasures. This makes buying an accessory a great way to bring a spark back to a relationship, while it can also be a fun idea for a treat for your partner for a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary.
Of course, with so many sexy accessories to choose from, finding the best one for your needs can be difficult. To make the process easier we have a few recommendations for the best sexy lingerie accessories to try out!
Nipple Pasties - Perfect Accessories for a Risqué Look
Simple yet effective, nipple pasties are awesome lingerie accessories that are sure to be well-received. As the name suggests, nipple pasties are placed just over the nipples, exposing the rest of the breasts while keeping the areolas hidden from view.
These produce an irresistible look and are so simple to use, with most being self-adhesive so you simply stick them over the nipples and you are good to go! Of course, they do work great when paired with other lingerie items.
For example, combining with an open-cup bra creates a daring and teasing look that sets pulses racing, while you may want to forgo the bra entirely and wear a sheer or mesh top - this creates an especially raunchy look for clubbing!
Colours and materials used for pasties vary, so it is easy to find the right ones that suit your preferences. There are common styles available, with flirty images like hearts, flowers, and stars a popular design, while you will find some that encrusted with diamantes or glitter for added cuteness.
You can go for class all-black pasties, some of which are basically black tape over the nipples, while there are many that come with tassels to evoke the classic burlesque look. Speaking of burlesque, if you want to go for the complete striptease style you can pair pasties with a corset, gloves, stockings, and your highest heels!
Eye masks - A Simple but Sensual Addition to the Bedroom
For those seeking to add some new experiences into their sexual adventures, we recommend trying out a sexy eye mask. These are not just designed for a good night’s sleep, with eye masks and blindfolds being a great place to dabble in some mild bondage and other kinky fun in the bedroom.
The big appeal of using an eye mask during sex and foreplay is sensory play. Basically, because your vision is impaired, your senses become much more heightened, making things like caressing, kissing, tickling, and spanking even more intense.
If you are being tied up, everything just feels more intense and exciting, the anticipation of wanting more but not knowing when it is coming being incredibly arousing. The person not wearing the mask also gets to enjoy teasing and pleasuring their partner, helping to build towards a massive climax while simultaneously keeping them guessing.
You can pair these accessories with others too, such as some mild restraints for tying each other up while blindfolded. This adds even more intensity to the experience, being especially good for foreplay and building towards some seriously amazing sex.
Available in various materials, eye masks are often made from soft and sumptuous fabrics like satin or silk, with popular colours including black and red for that seductive look. A good blindfold can be purchased for little price and will add all sorts of fun into the bedroom!
Restraints - Dip Your Toes into the World of Bondage
Ties, rope, handcuffs - there are all kinds of kinky restraints available for those seeking to add some kinkiness to their bedroom fun. Bondage is one of the more beginner-friendly subcultures of BDSM, with most people finding the idea of being bound or restraining a partner incredibly arousing.
As mentioned, there is a nice selection of products for this, with cuffs, rope, and soft ties all popular options. They are user-friendly, allowing for some basic bondage moves like hands tied behind the back or restrained to the bed posts, allowing for all kinds of naughty fun.
The big appeal of bondage is the power dynamic, with one person becoming dominate while the other is submissive. Each role can be a huge turn on for people, with many couples enjoying swapping between the roles for the complete bondage experience.
This is a sure-fire way to add a new element to your sex lives, opening you both up to an entire new world of kinky experiences. As with all the accessories we recommend, restraints pair well with other accessories, with eye masks being a popular combination.
Restraints can be used gently too, which is recommended for beginners, allowing you to experience mild bondage without things getting too intense or unsafe. Of course, if you like what you feel then you can take things up a level the more you use the restraints.
Before you do, always make sure to talk openly with your partner. Bondage is fun but requires both people to be clear about what they want and how to keep things safe.
If you are looking to add something new to your sex life, then look no further than some sexy accessories. These are great for beginners wanting to explore more aspects of their sexuality without feeling too intimidating, while they are guaranteed to result in some unforgettable nights in!
Scarlett Lawson is a 35-year-old consultant programmer who enjoys jigsaw puzzles, charity work and painting. She is generous and loveable, but can also be very disloyal and a bit standoffish.